About Me

I am a BDSM provider in Kansas City, a Kansas City Mistress, Kansas City Dominatrix, or The Mistress Of Kink.  I practice domination with a sensual flare, however, I have no problem spanking you to tears or whipping you until you bleed.  I am not afraid to push your limits, but I also respect them.  I am sadistic, yet caring.  I love what I do and have a great time doing it.  Of course everything in BDSM doesn’t need to be violent or painful.  It can also be a more sensual mind game of sorts.  For example, I find great fun in teasing a submissive using sensory deprivation and sensory play as well.  Contrary to stereotypes, I take a more subtle approach to my craft, giving orders in a calm, indoor voice.  I may tease you relentlessly, or simply poke fun at you while you are bound in whatever precarious bondage I have chosen for you.  However, I find it unnecessary to shout degrading personal insults in some attempt to strip you of your self worth.  Self esteem, or lack thereof, does not hinder one from submitting, nor does it threaten my own.  There will be absolutely no question who in control as I guide you through the power exchange, that is the exquisite dance of dominance and submission.  You can also relax in the knowledge that your safety and discretion are always paramount.